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> >
> > The only real solution is to get gmail _out_ of the path used to
> > move the message both ways.  One way is fine.
>
> Gmail isn't in my SMTP path.

SMTP is sending,.  The received header I show above confirms it came to 
me, from pearsoncomputing thru the gmail server farm.

How are you receiving? If thru a different address/server there shouldn't 
be a problem.  You haven't, that I can recall, related the address you 
use to receive.  That does make a yes/no difference.

> Please stop trying on my behalf to create a problem that isn't there. 
> That there is a problem I agree.  But you have entirely misdiagnosed
> it.

With what information I have, that is entirely possible Lisi.  Most, 
unaware of the problem, use the same address for both directions, and I 
had assumed that.  My bad, and my apologies if that is untrue.

Cheers, Gene Heskett
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