Happy New Year, all!

A few months ago I saw that it was possible to put text with the icons on the 
KMail toolbar and breathed a sigh of relief.  I could at last move my husband 
from Icedove (Thunderbird) to KMail, without being cruel to him, and my life 
would get a whole lot easier.  I could finally have him on Maildir not Mbox 
and could remove the viruses he loves downloading, without destroying half 
his email.  He downloads viruses with gay abandon, and whilst they do not 
hurt him, he has Windows using friends.

I am about to set his new computer up.  I am looking at things on my computer 
to refresh my memory.  And the text has disappeared again!  I am really sad 
about this.  Does anyone know where it has disappeared to or where I ought to 
be looking?  I hope that the problem is PEBKAC, and thus easily solved with 
your help.  It is KMail 1.9.10 on TDE 3.5.13.2.

Please help!  I can't face another eternity of trying to protect his friends 
from viruses on Icedove.  I tend to get cowardly and not run a virus 
check. :-(  I have Googled and Googled.  I have been Googling for a week or 
two. :-(

He is away, and I want to have it set up properly for him when he gets home on 
Thursday.

Thanks,
Lisi
P.S.  I once found seven little .exe files sitting in his home directory doing 
nothing!!  They were easy to delete. :-)